It was then that we were able to experience unconditional love for each other. As we grew together in love, our hearts opened. The second time we dated, with a new understanding of how men and women are different, we were able to make our relationship work. Without an updated approach to dating and relationships, we mistakenly concluded that we were not right for each other. We hadn’t yet felt the inner knowing that comes when the right conditions are satisfied. The first time we dated, we eventually knew we loved each other, but not enough to get married. Discovering this unconditional love was the result of first creating the right conditions for love to grow. By creating the right conditions for love to grow, our hearts opened, and we experienced a soul love, which loves no matter what. This time, because we dated differently, we eventually got married and have lived happily ever after. Although we loved each other very much, we didn’t get married.
Bonnie and I dated for about a year and half.
Eighteen years ago I was lucky enough to meet my soul mate but not skilled enough to make the relationship work. To find and recognize partners who can fulfill our new needs for increased intimacy, good communication, and a great love life, we need to update our dating skills.Įven if by good fortune you find a soul mate, without the right dating skills, you may not recognize him or her and get married. It is no longer enough to just find someone who is willing to marry us, we want partners who will love us more as they get to know us: we want to live happily ever after. Millions of men and women around the world are searching for a soul mate to experience lasting love, happiness, and romance. Today we want more from our relationships. The new challenge of dating is to find a partner who not only will be supportive of our physical needs for survival and security but will support our emotional, mental, and spiritual needs as well. This courting dynamic, which has been in place for thousands of years, has suddenly changed. Women looked for a strong man who would be a good provider men searched for a nurturing woman to make a home. Men and woman wanted a partner who could fulfill their basic needs for security and survival. In past generations, the challenge of dating was different.
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